Showing posts with label choices. Show all posts
Showing posts with label choices. Show all posts
She wakes with a million thoughts running through her mind.
In fact, the waking is more of a jolt as she considers
a new school year, care for aging parents, her Etsy business, 
a friend who has just lost a child, that ladies meeting at church
and how she really should put together a meal plan
and shopping list for the week to come.

(In my real life it looks like this....my son's wedding on Sunday
which means a week filled with details and cake making, An overflowing 
Etsy inbox, the physical and emotional exhaustion of a huge funeral last Saturday 
and catering of the reception which followed,
working with my Burmese Friends, preparing music lessons for this school year,
an annual physical, a hair cut and color, dinner with friends, and so much more.  
How about you?)

 Her feet hit the floor with a thud
and she sighs as it becomes apparent that the "dressing room"
is already occupied.
This morning is getting off to a wrong start.
She knows who is in there and they take forever.
Now she has a choice.

Will she choose to trust that God has this day
just like all of the others in His care and thank Him
for that fact and the shower loving child in the dressing room?
Or...
will she begin to fume and mumble about how this always happens
and she has so much to do?
Will she assume that her agenda is more important than the 
others in her home?

It is important which attitude she assumes because it will
impact every person she comes in contact with in the next
hour, if not all day.

God has given women a very important role in their homes.
We are the mood setters.
We have the power to take everyone along to our grumpy place
or to lift them from a hard day into an encouraging environment.

We cannot do this in our own strength.
We need to call out to Him daily to receive
His joy...even when we are feeling stressed, sad or tired to the bone.

I admit that I don't always go there first.
But more and more I see the rewards of making that choice
to be thankful in all things.
May God continue to teach me to seek Him first.

It really is the best choice.

Psalm 86: 1-13 (NIV) says it well....

Hear me, Lord, and answer me,

    for I am poor and needy.
2 
Guard my life, for I am faithful to you;
    save your servant who trusts in you.
You are my God; 3 have mercy on me, Lord,
    for I call to you all day long.
4 
Bring joy to your servant, Lord,
    for I put my trust in you.
5 
You, Lord, are forgiving and good,

    abounding in love to all who call to you.
6 
Hear my prayer, Lord;
    listen to my cry for mercy.
7 
When I am in distress, I call to you,
    because you answer me.
8 
Among the gods there is none like you, Lord;

    no deeds can compare with yours.
9 
All the nations you have made
    will come and worship before you, Lord;
    they will bring glory to your name.
10 
For you are great and do marvelous deeds;
    you alone are God.
11 
Teach me your way, Lord,

    that I may rely on your faithfulness;
give me an undivided heart,
    that I may fear your name.
12 
I will praise you, Lord my God, with all my heart;
    I will glorify your name forever.
13 
For great is your love toward me;
    you have delivered me from the depths,
    from the realm of the dead.



Blessings on your week!
by Phyllis Ducey
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Choices bombard us daily… we have hundreds of channels on our TV, (and have trouble finding anything good to view), thousands of songs to listen to and movies galore to watch. Did you ever go to a restaurant and be asked 10 questions before your order was complete? Sometimes I am dumbfounded by all the choices and want to say just give it to me, don’t make me choose!

I just heard a scientist state that a person averages 260 food decisions a day!

I can choose if I want brown hair or make it red; I can choose the color of my eyes if I wear contacts (which I don’t because it creeps me out to stick something in my eye); I can choose how I spend my money, what I listen to and what I eat. I can choose to let my bad mood affect others or keep it to myself. I can choose whether I will listen to someone, pretend to or just walk away.

Without even realizing it we are continually making choices. I choose to be on time for work, brush my teeth, put on makeup and wear clean clothes. (Sometimes choosing the clothes can be a challenge if I am feeling particularly overweight that day!) I choose to drive to work, listen to a radio station, and take stairs or the elevator. I never have tried to count but I would not be surprised if we did not make thousands of choices in a day!

Why did God not just give us parameters and tell us this is what we do and that’s it. Wouldn’t it have been easier? He could have made our world grey or black and white to simplify our choices. (Then we would not have lengthy discussion on what color to paint the walls!)

God gave us choices.
"If you love Me, keep My commandments.
John 14:15

We often hear it referred to as free will. He allows us to choose to ignore Him as the countries of Judah and Israel did in the times of the prophets Isaiah and Jeremiah.

He allows us to choose Him.
"but these are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that believing you may have life in His name."
John 20:31

He is God and He allows us choice… wow! Isn’t that amazing? And He even allows us to think the right to these choices is something we deserve! We don’t… He is just an incredibly gracious God. I think about the privilege of choice a lot.

If I went to see my grandkids and they were told: “go hug your grandmother” and did it in a required manner without enthusiasm, it would have little meaning to me. But my grandkids (God bless them), when they see me, come running and screaming “Grammy, Grammy, Grammy” and jump into my arms …and the little ones plant themselves on my lap, putting their face right into my face wanting my undivided attention! Oh, my how rewarding that is. I love it and can’t get enough of it. (It could be the only earthly thing that is better than chocolate!) Maybe in some little way, that is why God gives us a choice. He wants us to choose Him... to want to be with Him... to relish our time and be sad if we can't spend more time with Him.

Thou art worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honour and power: for thou hast created all things, and for thy pleasure they are and were created.
Rev 4:11 (KJV)

And us choosing to run to Him with our whole heart will bring Him glory and joy.

"Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength."
Deuteronomy 6:5
In return it brings us joy too. So, as I said in my post last week, Heavy Heart, our joy is a choice. I can choose to turn to God, to trust in Him or I can choose to do it my own way. I can choose to be thankful no matter what the circumstances or I can choose to be bitter within. I can choose to ruin everyone's day because I had something bad happen or I can choose to give it to God with thanksgiving and bless others. The choice is mine.
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
Phil 4:6,7

I was going to end there but wanted to add one more thing about choosing to give it to God with thanksgiving. That perplexed me for the longest time. I lost my best friend of over 25 years to cancer, how can I be thankful for that? It was a choice. To choose to trust that God will only allow into my life things that He will carry me through. To say to the Lord: “I am hurting. I can not carry this load but I know You can. I give it to You out of obedience to Your word”, thanking Him that He is in control. Thanking Him that He can use my pain and sorrow to mold and shape me into His piece of art. God has taught me how I can be thankful in my sorrow, pain and/or grief.
"Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God."
Col 3:15,16

As I allow God's word to dwell richly in me, I know the choice is mine.


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